Etiquette

  • Screening is absolutely mandatory for all first dates and a standard practice to ensure my safety. All information is strictly confidential and will be deleted upon screening completion. I require one of the following:

    * One form of ID with full name and DOB (address and ID number can be blurred).

    * Your LinkedIn profile, which should have a photo and at least 50 connections.

    * 2 references from verifiable providers you’ve seen within the last year

    No exceptions.

  • A 20% deposit is required for all first dates. I accept multiple digital payment options, including bitcoin.

    Once screening has been completed, I’ll contact you with deposit options & details.

    For travel & FMTY, a deposit of 25% plus travel & accommodation cost is required

  • I understand that life gets busy & things happen! As long as you are able to let me know 48 hours before our date, I am happy to reschedule our encounter and apply your deposit to a future date.

    If you must cancel within 48 hours of our date, your deposit will be forfeited, and I will require a 50% deposit for future bookings.

    If for any reason I need to cancel our rendezvous, I will refund your deposit within 72 hours.

  • You comfort is of the utmost priority to me. Your information and details of our engagement will be kept entirely private. It is my expectation that our actions, anything we discuss during our time together, as well as any personal information learned throughout remains between you and me.

  • I always prefer cash for the donation, but please let me know before our date if you will be opting for a cashless option. Let’s not limit our time together with talk of logistics.

    If opting for cash:

    Please leave the donation in an unsealed envelope in plain view at the start of our date.

    If we’re meeting in public, please place the donation in a book, card, or gift bag.

    If opting for digital patronage:

    Please contact me beforehand for options, and send the donation before/at the start of our date.

  • If we are to enjoy each others company for 3 or more hours, I ask that we include some social time. We could go for drinks, a meal, a show, a gallery, shopping, dancing, etc. If unable to do so due to privacy concerns, please add $500 to the donation.

    For overnight dates, please allow 8 hours for uninterrupted sleep.

    For multi-day dates, kindly factor in an additional 2 hours of personal time per day.